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Marriage Ministry

Whether you are a pre-married, married, or remarried couple; we are here to help you create a thriving marriage that lasts a lifetime.


Moe and Paige Becnel are passionate about healthy life-long marriages. They married in 1989, and have been ministering to pre-married, married, and remarried couples since 2000. They have written books, spoken at marriage conferences and retreats, taught classes, and counseled couples for over 16 years.


The vision of The Rock Marriage Ministry is to build and strengthen every marriage and family into the vibrant, passionate, one-minded relationship that God intended a marriage to be. We know that God ordained the beautiful covenant of marriage, and we know our adversary, the devil, is out to deceptively destroy every priceless thing that our loving God has made. The Rock staff places a very high value on helping you achieve God’s design of a healthy, life-giving, intimate marriage that models God’s passionate love for His church.

“Therefore if you have any encouragement from being untied with Christ,
if any comfort from His love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any
tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-
minded, having the same live, being one in 
spirit and of one mind.”
 Phillipians 2:1-2

The Apostle Paul spoke those words to the church in Philippi, addressing the some strife and discord in the church. Yet, those words “by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”  portrays a wonderful image of a loving, united, fulfilling marriage!

-Pastors Moe and Paige Becnel


Pre-marriage Education 
Everyone plans a wedding, but so few plan for a love-filled relationship.  Preparation can help you have a marriage that others envy.
If you plan to be married by one of the pastors at The Rock, you will be required to participate in a premarital counseling program. You can choose the one we offer (Prepare-Enrich) or another similar program. Couples who are being married by a Rock pastor and who elect to use another premarital counseling program should have their counselor submit a letter indicating the counseling program has been completed.
The Rock pastors reserve the right to refuse to marry a couple if he or she deems the couple is not ready for marriage or has serious concerns about the marriage.

Pastoral Counseling 
We are here to help fine-tune, rebuild, and strengthen your marriage and family.


Marriage Classes 
Each Spring and Fall we offer a variety of marriage building tools and skills by the best Marriage Authors. The Classes are 8 to 10 weeks, and are held on Sunday mornings or Wednesday evenings. The classes are designed to help couples improve communication, resolve conflicts, and gain vital understanding of God’s design of men, women, and marriage.

Marriage Life Groups 
These are home groups that gather to learn, laugh, and live life together. Contact us for locations of these groups, or check the LIFE GROUPS MAP in the church foyer.


To schedule your premarital counseling, or a counseling appointment, please contact

Pastors Moe and Paige Becnel

ALSO, Please check the Rock Connect for upcoming Marriage Events



Beginning Wednesday, September 6th at 7:00pm

Keys to a Loving Relationship Pt.1 by Gary Smalley
(Part 2 is available but you must have taken Part 1 to participate in this class)
Led by John and Evelyn Baker
Gary Smalley presents his 19 Keys to Loving Relationships in this 10 week DVD series. Each session gives practical insights and a greater understanding about the need for close, intimate relationships.
$35 per couple.

Register Online

Beginning Wednesday, September 27th at 7:00pm

The Way of Agape, Understanding God’s Love by Chuck and Nancy Missler
Led by Gary and Phyllis Longfellow
Nancy Missler~ God’s Love has not only saved our marriage, it has turned it around to where it’s a hundred times better than it ever was—even when we were first married.
$35 per couple, includes a book

Register Online

On Wednesday, October 18th & 25th

Rerouting Your Connections: Parenting with Purpose in the Digital Age
Led by Alex Avila, Licensed Counselor, Founder: Relationship Institute of the Rockies
This two-night interactive seminar will help parents and other caregivers learn the latest in social media apps, technology trends and addictive behaviors to protect themselves and their children. Practical steps will also be given to help family members focus on their most important relationships.
$10 per couple for this two part series.  Handouts included.

Register Online


Beginning Sunday, Sept 10th at 9:00 am   

Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
Led by Daniel and Heidi Longshore
Using the DVD series and workbook by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs,
Love and Respect is for a lifetime: Women absolutely need love. Men absolutely need respect. It’s as simple and as complicated as that.
$35 per couple. Includes a workbook.

Register Online

Beginning Sunday, Sept 10th at 11:00am

Part 1 of Keys to a Loving Relationship.
Keys to a Loving Relationship by Gary Smalley
Led by John and Evelyn Baker
Gary Smalley presents his 19 Keys to Loving Relationships in this 10 week DVD series. Each session gives practical insights and a greater understanding about the need for close, intimate relationships.
$35 per couple. Includes a workbook

Register Online